The way to a woman's heart

is writing a song for her. Actually thats really not true. I have had four different songs written for me (that I know of) by four different, obviously infatuated suitors, and absolutely zero by the man who won my heart. But, suffice to say it is an incredibly romantic display of love (lust or obsession) to the subject of their affection and one I will instill in my (poor unsuspecting) sons.

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